Care isn't an afterthought here — it's part of how every gathering is planned, hosted and followed up on. This is how we try to hold it, before, during and after.
Clear expectations, approval and introductions before anyone attends — so consent and comfort are discussed before the evening begins, not during it.
Hosts present throughout, a culture of asking first, and a quiet, private space available to anyone who needs a moment away from the room.
A gentle close to the evening, and an open line afterwards for anyone processing the experience or wanting to raise a concern.
Kaby organizes and hosts The Pleasure Port's gatherings in Phuket, bringing together a background in psychology with a genuine care for how people connect, consent and feel safe in a social setting.
Specialist workshops and sessions will identify the person leading them, their qualifications and the scope of their work. Any sessions offered by Kaby will be announced separately once their format and availability are confirmed.
SDC username: Kabrey · Group: Phuket The Pleasure Port
Small, peer-led circles for processing experiences and asking questions honestly, outside of event nights.
Members who want to help host, greet newcomers or support the Care team — enquire if you'd like to get more involved.
As confirmed facilitators join the Port, their contact details will be shared here for members seeking specialized guidance.
Whatever you're unsure about — care practices, privacy, or just whether this is for you — we're happy to talk it through first.