Community & Care

Pleasure and wellbeing, held together.

Care isn't an afterthought here — it's part of how every gathering is planned, hosted and followed up on. This is how we try to hold it, before, during and after.

People gathered together at a villa poolside at sunset
How We Hold Care

Before, during and after.

Before

Setting the ground

Clear expectations, approval and introductions before anyone attends — so consent and comfort are discussed before the evening begins, not during it.

During

Presence & respect

Hosts present throughout, a culture of asking first, and a quiet, private space available to anyone who needs a moment away from the room.

After

Aftercare & follow-up

A gentle close to the evening, and an open line afterwards for anyone processing the experience or wanting to raise a concern.

Hosted by Kaby

The person behind the Port.

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Kaby organizes and hosts The Pleasure Port's gatherings in Phuket, bringing together a background in psychology with a genuine care for how people connect, consent and feel safe in a social setting.

Specialist workshops and sessions will identify the person leading them, their qualifications and the scope of their work. Any sessions offered by Kaby will be announced separately once their format and availability are confirmed.

SDC username: Kabrey · Group: Phuket The Pleasure Port

More Ways to Take Part

Circles, support and volunteers.

Three people walking and talking together

Circles & Reflection

Small, peer-led circles for processing experiences and asking questions honestly, outside of event nights.

People sharing a warm moment together on a lounge sofa

Participation & Volunteers

Members who want to help host, greet newcomers or support the Care team — enquire if you'd like to get more involved.

A quiet, candlelit lounge corner set aside for calm conversation

Expert Support

As confirmed facilitators join the Port, their contact details will be shared here for members seeking specialized guidance.

Still Have Questions?

Ask about the community.

Whatever you're unsure about — care practices, privacy, or just whether this is for you — we're happy to talk it through first.